Be Different

31595634855277642_q39wd13o_c_largeThere will be two types of people in your life: the ones who build you up and the ones that will tear you down. Yet, you should thank both types. Just make sure as you go forth in life, creating your life and how you want it to be, that you have those people that believe in you around you the most. Those that are there to help build you up will be there to encourage you when you feel down. They are the ones that will have your back when necessary. Those that try to bring you down, well, they will be there as well, in the front row when you fail. They will be the ones to say I told you so, or I knew you couldn’t do it.

There are a lot of people afraid to live their own lives. They look for someone to blame because they are not really in control of their own life or their destiny. However, don’t allow their fear to play a part in your life, where you become fearful to make the moves in your spirit that are necessary for you to make in order to get to that place in your life you are trying to go.

You have to be thankful for those who doubt you, speak negatively of you, who judge you and who cause drama in life. For they are the ones that adds the fuel to the fire you call determination. They are the ones that allow you to push yourself harder, become better and to excel in whatever goal you are reaching for. So, be sure to thank them every chance you get.

However, those who have always been there for you, cheering you on and not allow you to doubt yourself, make sure you thank them the most and with the same sincerity they gave to you, as their encouragement and support has helped you get to where you are trying to go. Those are the people you want to always keep and have in your corner. They are the ones that never doubted your ability, never spoke badly about you to others, never made you fearful or feel like you were less than. Most importantly, they kept your life very drama free.

You have to realize you are different than those people that only tries to bring you down, therefore you need to be around people that are more like you, DIFFERENT.



  1. Nice post!

  2. There’s so much wisdom in this post. Thanks for sharing.

    • Hi Jan – Thank you! I am glad you think so. I hope all is going well with you and your book. I am digging the new picture…handsome and smart! 🙂

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