Go Get IT!
Oh boy! They are going to be mad at you. Did you know that whenever you move beyond someone’s opinion of you, they get upset because you thought more of yourself than they thought of you? Someone may not like what I have to say on this one, but I am just speaking
Sometimes, if you really want to know just how far you can go and how much you can do, you may need to leave some people behind. This is because you must be willing to do more, be more and have more than those in your present circle. Now, this doesn’t mean you should be comparing yourself to them, it doesn’t mean you are showing off, nor does it mean you think you are better than they are. It just means you are willing to step out on your own and try life for yourself and go claim your blessing, guilt free.
If you really want to know who you are and what you are capable of achieving, you have to be willing to live without the opinion of other people. To do this, you don’t ask for their opinion, and if their opinion is given you need not accept. You have to be able to develop your own true identify, without anyone’s input because although, you may not think about it too much, you are equipped with a wealth of knowledge. You just need to take some time to yourself and search for it.
Now, I am not saying you can’t take effective feedback from anyone, but you don’t have to take what is said as the holy grail of feedbacks. Let’s face it, not everyone is going to like what you do or how you do it and that’s ok, because they are not living your life. You are! And if you are the type of person that can’t live without the opinion of others or you have to always have others around you, you will never know what your life is truly all about.
It’s time you stop holding on to other people’s opinions about you. It’s also time you start taking some risk and stop trying to keep others on your side. It’s ok to let people know what you want for your life and it’s ok to let them know you don’t agree with their opinion of you. It’s time you took control and Go Get IT!