All the Single Mothers

Today’s single mothers are the dating worlds best kept secret.

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There are a lot men put off by dating a single mom and most single moms don’t understand why. There are some misconceptions out there that give single moms a bad rap, like the belief that single mothers are just looking for a dad for their kids (there are some dad’s who rock, so there is no need for a replacement!). So, when it comes down to it, many single moms are the dating worlds best kept secret! Here’s why:

1. Low on Drama
Look, we’ve had a baby (or babies); most of us have been through a divorce… so we’re pretty focused on raising our children and supporting our families. We’re all grown up. We don’t have time or the inclination to sweat the smaller stuff. We’re mature and real, and Lord knows we don’t have time to throw our own temper tantrums when we’ve got kids doing it for us. We want you to be our refuge, our safe harbor and our grown-up playmate.

2. Between the Sheets
Speaking of playmates — our hormones have done a lot of things and the likelihood is that we’re in our 40s or close to it, which means, Mr. Man that we’re in our sexual prime. I don’t know of one single mom who isn’t looking for some type of sexual healing. Most single mothers came out of sexually dissatisfying marriages and are ready to play, to explore, and to totally revel in our new found freedom and glory. What guy wouldn’t want to be at the receiving end of that?

3. Tick – Tock No Biological Clock
Most guys are afraid that if they date a woman in her 30s she wants to know where it’s going and when their getting married and having babies within just a few months! But if they date a woman in her 20s they have nothing in common. Well, guys, here we are! You’re looking at an amazing array of women whose biological clocks have ticked and tocked and likely don’t want or need more babies. Have at us! Yes, we have children, but guess what? You’re not gonna meet them unless this gets serious. So, if you fall in love with us, you’re gonna have to be willing to take on all which that means, but in the meantime, we just wanna have fun.

4. The real Powerhouses
I believe that single moms are some of the most powerful women on earth. We have stood strong while everything around us crumbled, whether we made that call or not. We have picked ourselves up by our bootstraps and made something of and for our children and ourselves. Oh — and we gave birth. Let’s not forget that little tidbit. If you’re looking for a woman you can respect and honor, you’ll find her in the single mothers’ pool.

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