It’s Time

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I remember the time my mom was not feeling well, she was having great abdominal pain and was sent to the hospital, where she ended up having to stay in the hospital as they needed to run a various set of test on her.  Once she was settled in and resting I had to leave and told her I would see her first thing in the morning. Well, the next morning as I was getting ready to go back to the hospital and check on her I received a call from the hospital telling me she had gone into a coma after having a cat scan. Needless to say, I was highly upset and rushed to be by her side. There had been people who have come out of a coma that had been in a coma for months and they say your hearing is the last to go, so I was hoping she could hear me as I was talking to her and even if her brain may have been dead as long as her heart was still beating I refused to allow them to unplug the machines.  So the hospital allowed me to stay in one of their private rooms so that I could be there on site and be with her whenever I felt like it. She passed away several days later.

I tell you this because I feel it is time. It’s time to start having quality conversations with loved ones again. Death is a real challenge and it tells us not to waste time. It tells us to make the time right now to tell each other that we love each other. It tells us to stop texting and tweeting every second and actually open the floodgates to real, long, heartfelt conversations with the people we love and care about. Relationships flourish when people are able to share their innermost feelings and thoughts about themselves and each other. To be fully heard by someone, in raw form, and to be adored anyhow, is what true love is. Making time for these deep connections and conversations is well worth it. It’s Time.

3 Comments

  1. Dear Cheryl, thank you for sharing a story that must have left you feeling very vulnerable. I’m sorry for your loss. I hope your story will motivate people to do as you say – open the floodgates to real, long, heartfelt conversations. Life is too short for anything else.

    • You are so sweet! 🙂 Thank you! Yes, I was vulnerable, but I prefer to be as transparent as possible if it can help others. I appreciate you! Have a good rest of the week and a wonderful weekend!

  2. I’m so sorry for your loss, my friend. Thank you for sharing such a deepfounded post. Take good care of yourself, Cheryl.

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